Selling your home is emotional. Moving out of it? That’s next level.
As much as we love the idea of fresh starts and new spaces, the reality is that moving can feel overwhelming, exhausting, and strangely sentimental all at once.
I guide my clients through buying and selling every day, and I’ll tell you this: the smoothest moves aren’t the ones without stress - they’re the ones with a plan.
Let’s talk about what actually matters.
1. Start Packing Earlier Than You Think You Need To
I know. You look around and think, “We don’t have that much stuff.”
You have more than you realize you do.
Start with:
• Seasonal items
• Decor
• Storage rooms
• Closets (yes… even that one)
Packing early does two powerful things:
1. It makes your home show better.
2. It gives you breathing room.
When your home is on the market, we want it feeling spacious, clean, and neutral - not like you’re mid-transition. A little pre-packing doubles as staging.
2. Understand Your Possession Day Timeline
Here’s something many sellers don’t realize:
On possession day, you do not receive keys to your new home at midnight. Funds have to be transferred from the buyer’s lawyer to your lawyer before possession is officially completed.
If there’s a delay (it happens occasionally), keys can be released later in the day.
That’s why I always recommend:
• Book movers for the next day.
• Have a backup plan for pets and kids.
• Keep essentials accessible (coffee maker included - trust me).
Moving day is smoother when expectations are realistic.
3. Declutter Before You Pack
If you haven’t used it in 5 years, you probably don’t need to move it.
Moving is expensive. Time is valuable. Energy is limited.
Use this as your reset:
• Donate
• Toss
• Sell
• Simplify
Your next home deserves a fresh start - not boxes of “maybe someday.”
4. Label Like a Professional
Future you will thank present you.
Label:
• The room
• A quick summary of contents
• “Open First” boxes
I always suggest one clearly marked “First Night” bin with:
• Bedding
• Toiletries
• Phone chargers
• Paper towel
• Garbage bags
• Snacks
There is nothing glamorous about digging through 27 boxes at 9pm looking for toothpaste.
5. Emotion Is Normal
You may feel:
• Excited
• Relieved
• Sad
• Nervous
• All of it in one hour
That’s normal.
Homes hold memories. Kids grow up in them. Holidays happen in them. Big life conversations unfold in them.
Moving doesn’t erase that. It just makes space for what’s next.
6. Trust the Process (And Your Team)
My role isn’t just negotiating your sale price.
It’s:
• Managing timelines
• Communicating with lawyers
• Tracking conditions
• Protecting your interests
• Preparing you for what’s ahead
You don’t have to carry all of it alone.
When you work with me, you’re not just getting someone to list your home. You’re getting guidance from the first showing to the final signature - and yes, even the “where did I pack the scissors?” text.
Final Thoughts
Moving is work. Real work.
But it’s also a milestone.
And when done right - with preparation, clarity, and the right support - it becomes less chaotic and more intentional.
If you’re thinking about selling and wondering what the moving process really looks like behind the scenes, let’s chat. I’ll give you the honest version.
Coffee optional. Strategy included.
